A Sure Foundation in Changing Times
Genesis 21:8-21, Psalm 86:1-10, 16-17, Matthew 10:24-39

More than 3,000 miles -- first to Ohio and Michigan, then to the Panhandle of Texas.  That’s a lot of gasoline and time on the road, and all for the sake of family.  An uncle who turns another year older on a steady march to death; a grandson graduating from high school; reaching a major milestone in his journey to adulthood; and, a great-grandson to welcome into the world as the newest addition to an ever-increasing tribe.  And then there are the family reunions taking place this weekend in central Texas and northeastern Missouri to which we obviously did not go since we are here today.  Which brings us to this family of which Gloria and I are a part and which is more than a small part of us – St. James, our church, the larger church, the Body of Christ and the Kingdom of Heaven.

Families.  Family values.  We are family.  Us vs. them.  Blood is thicker than water.

 Or is it?

For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; and one’s foes will be members of one’s own household.

So we might understand what Jesus is saying to his disciples, to the people in Matthew’s church, and to us, it would be helpful perhaps to backtrack a bit.  While it would be easy to hear this as an anthropological discourse on relationships but it is clearly much more than that.  Paul, in true midrashic tradition, points out that Hagar and Sarah, Ishmael and Isaac, represent an entire history of God’s promise most clearly seen in Adam and Christ – Law and Grace, Old Covenant and New.  Now with allegory, there is always the possibility of abuse – as there is with any interpretation of something greater than the human mind can contain.  Nevertheless, this wider view of the character of these stories is essential if we are to grasp the words of Christ to those who would be followers of The Way.  Further, to grasp some of the deeper meanings, it helps to remember that Paul, in writing to the churches, clarifies that the sword Jesus brings is the Word of God – as divisive and threatening a weapon as there is for spiritual warfare. 

Throughout the Old Testament, as especially evidenced in the Genesis stories, the cultural practice of patriarchy, of honoring the eldest son with the family blessing and wealth is attacked.  There are the archetypal stories of Cain and Abel, Ishmael and Isaac, and Esau and Jacob.  Only a couple of weeks ago we heard the again the story of David, the one left in the field when Samuel came to anoint the new king of Israel but the feast could not begin until the heir to God’s promise had entered the house.  Then there are the stories of Jacob’s sons, especially Judah and Joseph, that presage a practice that would become an essential part of the cultic worship in the Covenant established at Sinai – the practice of laying the sins of the family of Hebrews on a goat to be sent out into the desert.  Joseph, the father’s favorite, is sold into slavery in Egypt only to become the redeemer of the brothers who rejected him.

From a family system point of view, developed mostly in the last 30 years or so, there is often found, within families, specific roles to be fulfilled by each of the children – the Hero, the Scapegoat, the Priest, the Lost Child, the Mascot.  These roles are played out in childhood and carried into adulthood to greater or lesser degrees by all of us.  The function of these roles is to produce stability within the system, to preserve its integrity, and to insure its continuation.  In the larger family of church or school or nation, we see these roles fulfilled by groups.  There seems to be a need, within our political systems, for an enemy – a threat.  Even before 9/11, those who study such things predicted that with the demise of the evil Soviet Union, a new enemy would likely be created from the Islamic world – a new threat that could become the focal point for rallying our defenses.  The West would need to identify a new enemy, a new ‘Axis of Evil.’

It is a way of life we have learned all too well.  When something goes wrong, when there is loss, hurt, or injury – find some thing or someone to blame.  Historically, every culture has depended on a target for blame to maintain its power and control over its citizenry and its territory.  To quote from Mark Heim (Saved from Sacrifice: a theology of the cross):
We humans took a terrible thing – scapegoating violence against the innocent (or against those who are guilty of something but not the demonic effects we claim) – and made it a good thing.  It brings us together, stops escalating conflict among us, unites us against a common enemy.  We overcome our differences and make peace by finding a common victim, by hating together.  We restrain violence with violence.  Satan casts out Satan, and becomes all the stronger for it.  This isn’t random, pointless evil.  It is woven into the way communities work, and the problem it solves is real.
 And while Jesus will become the sacrifice, the scapegoat as it were, for a people, his resurrection will destroy that system forever.  No little threat to perceived stability is this Son of Man.  And those who call themselves disciples – and act like it – are likewise no small threat either.

This is the same man who taught:  You have heard that it was said, “You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.” But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be children of your Father in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the righteous and on the unrighteous (Matt. 5:43-45).

Perhaps it was because these lessons were hidden in the recesses of my mind as we traveled; perhaps 3000 miles is too long to be cooped up in the car – but I couldn’t help but notice the frequency with which I saw stickers on cars which read “Support Our Troops” or “Pray for Our Troops.”  Perhaps with less frequency than just a couple of years ago but I understand the sentiment.  What struck me though was the absence of a single sticker that said “Love the Taliban” or “Pray for North Korea.”  I can well imagine what might happen to a car displaying such a sticker.

In the 10th chapter of Matthew, Jesus speaks words of warning to those who hear his call to follow him.  It will be tough at times.  Those you love and trust will turn on you.  Its what we do when things get tough – we, by the evidence of history, tend to unite in our hatred, we identify a source of the problems we face outside ourselves, and we punish the representative of evil.  And lacking a scapegoat outside our family, we identify one within.

The coming weeks and months promise to be a time of challenge for us as a church.  Our beloved priest, Edie Bird, leaves us next week.  There will follow the usual uncertainties as we and our Bishop build a consensus around a new vicar.  The strife amongst the leadership of The Episcopal Church seems unending as our family feud continues in dioceses such as Pittsburgh, Fort Worth, and San Joaquin.  And as a Communion, the Anglican Church faces challenges as balance of power and money issues over take the bonds of affection which have held the communion together since the British Empire began its demise beginning with the American Revolution.  Change, controversy, difficulty – these are the things of which life consists.  This is the challenge to those who would follow the Christ.

In times of challenge we so often see our worldly nature creep in as we, at whatever level, find ourselves guilty of thinking that we can restrain violence with violence and build the Kingdom of God.  It will not work. 

Rather, our hope is in the Lord.  We, like Ishmael can cry out to God.  Remember these words: “Do not be afraid; for God has heard the voice of the boy where he is.”

Prayer is an effective tool.  I cannot describe the degree to which regular Morning Prayer has changed my thoughts – who can pray the prayer for enemies without becoming a more forgiving person, who can pray the Prayer of Thanksgiving without realizing the wonderful gift of God’s Love that permeates the world in which we live and tend to find so much wrong.

The collect for this week says it quite well:
O Lord, make us have perpetual love and reverence for your holy Name, for you never fail to help and govern those whom you have set upon the sure foundation of your loving­kindness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Rev. John Dryden Burton
St. James’ Episcopal Church
Eureka Springs, AR
22 June 2008

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